Be your own voice!

We go through challenges in life that we don't feel like we have any ability to change. Sometimes the habits we have created in our lives make it look like there's no way we can improve our situations.

Are you stuck because you genuinely have no choice or because you choose to not give yourself a choice?

. If you want to improve your circumstances the effort can only come from you. We all know its easier said than done but are we really making the effort to improve our circumstances? Maybe you would like to make a big purchase. Buy a car or a house or go on a trip. We have discussions with our peers saying how difficult it is to finance our ideas but when we really sit down and analyse our spending habits, we realise we're just spending money on the wrong things. It could be as small as funding your smoking addiction by buying packs of cigarettes every week. When you calculate these things yearly you realise the annual total of your cigarette purchases could have funded your vacation or even been a deposit for the car you wanted. Be the voice inside of you to make these changes. You have to be your biggest critic and your biggest motivator cause no one knows you better than yourself. If you really want to make changes in your financial situation, have that conversation with yourself. Write letters to yourself declaring what you wanna achieve for the year. Realistic goals. Goals that are within your reach. Maybe you want to quit smoking. Reward that achievement with the money you no longer spend on buying packs of cigarettes with a vacation. Sacrifice losing one bad habit to gain a reward. Whatever you want to achieve be realistic and be as dedicated to fulfilling that achievement as you are to keeping up with the bad habits that you have. The average person could tell you a few of the bad habits they have so if you're so aware of the habits why don't you change them? It's easier to carry on doing what you know than to try something that will take you out of your comfort zone. But no one is going to rally behind you to make the changes. You may have a great support system. Family members, great friends. These family members and friends will only support you when you make the effort and your consistency allows them to. Be your biggest encouragement. Believe in you. This post wasn't for anything specific this post was just for the person who may be feeling like they don't have the means or will power to do it and they're looking for something from someone one else. Don't look for anyone. The reflection you see in the mirror is the only person you need to make things happen. Maybe there something you don't like at work. You have the power to change that even if that means finding another job. You don't owe anybody anything. You are not here to be treated like crap and to accept it. You are not here to feel like you need someone else to get the ball rolling for you to do the things you want to do. You are your own person. Born in this world alone (unless you're a twin). I want to carry on with the 20/20 for 2020 attitude. Make sure your vision is clear in regards to your goals and targets that you want to achieve. Don't let negative thoughts or bad habits creep back in and keep you down. Do what's necessary to achieve your goals. Read, listen to motivational speakers anything that gets you motivated and go out there and don't stop till you get it. I'm not the greatest writer but my intentions are clear. I want to uplift and support those who are not confident enough or don't know where to start. Be your biggest fan. Love yourself and wanna win more than anything cause self-satisfaction, health and happiness are the biggest rewards we could ever want to achieve on this earth.